From The Mind Of Wag...

There’s a question many people have about organ donation that they may never actually say out loud: “If I’m a registered organ donor, will doctors still do everything possible to save my life?” The answer is yes. Always. The medical team treating you is there for one reason: To save your life. The doctors and nurses providing lifesaving care are separate from the organ donation and transplant process. Organ donation does not become an option simply because someone is registered as a donor. First, medical professionals do everything they can to save the patient’s life. Only after lifesaving efforts have failed and death has been declared according to medical and legal standards can the possibility of organ donation be considered. That distinction matters. Because I’ve learned that many people aren’t necessarily opposed to organ donation. They’re uncertain about how it actually works. And uncertainty leaves room for some frightening assumptions: What if they see that little heart on my d...

I have listened to Paul Harvey for as long as I can remember. I loved the voice. The timing. The pause before the reveal. He could take an obscure moment from history and make you feel as though you were being entrusted with something the rest of the world had somehow missed. And if Paul Harvey told the story? I believed it. At least, I did until he told me about the bullet that impregnated a seventeen-year-old girl. That was the first time I remember listening and thinking: There is no damn way that happened. The story we heard According to the story, it happened during the Civil War. A young soldier was struck by a Minié ball. The bullet shattered his leg, ricocheted upward and passed through his scrotum, carrying away one of his testicles. At almost precisely the same moment, a seventeen-year-old girl standing near a house behind the battlefield screamed. The same bullet had supposedly continued across the battlefield and entered her abdomen. She survived. Two hundred seventy-eight ...

AN ORGAN DONATION EDUCATIONAL MOMENT Yesterday, I attended a LifeGift event celebrating Multicultural Awareness Month. One of the speakers said something that stayed with me. I’m paraphrasing, but the thought was essentially: “We come from different cultures. We speak different languages. But hope is the same for all of us.” Think about that in the context of organ donation. A donor and recipient may come from completely different worlds. Different cultures. Different languages. Different traditions. Different beliefs. Different life experiences. They may never have met. And yet, in one extraordinary moment, their stories become forever connected. The person whose heart now beats inside my chest may have experienced the world very differently than I do. I may never know. But I do know this: When my family and I were waiting for a heart, hope didn’t belong to a culture. It didn’t speak a particular language. It didn’t care where I came from. It was simply hope. And somewhere, in the mid...